On the 1st and 2nd, some of the people around you are going to try to involve you (or overinvolve you) in their dramas. Don't let them. After all, their dramas are not your problem, and if you let them distract you, you're only doing yourself a disservice. Stay focused on what you need. You've spent enough time frittering away your energies trying to help other people out of dilemmas they actually enjoyed being part of. If you have any doubts about whether or not to leave people to work out their own problems, ask yourself: When was the last time any of these drama queens stepped in to help you? By the 6th and 7th, your new 'take responsibility for yourself' attitude could lead to some problems arising in some slightly codependent relationships. Don't try to fix everything. On the 13th and 14th, a real friend helps you out. On the 19th, you're feeling freer and stronger than you have in a very long time. This is fantastic. By the 24th and 25th, if you're tired, cancel any unnecessary plans and turn in early. You need to conserve your energy! On the 30th, you're ready to wrap up the month in 'critical' mode: Which of these relationships enrich your life? And which are just a drain?